What Paris Taught Me // 2


I find it interesting that people so often use a solo cinema trip as their first "alone" outing. It makes sense – you get to hide in the dark for most of it! – but, as someone who has worked in several cinemas over several years, I can confirm: going to the cinema alone is a totally normal thing to do and the staff think nothing of it.

(which doesn't stop me from feeling a little bit self conscious if I'm sitting in a cafe, drinking hot chocolate on my own)

I found this a really interesting other perspective, because I have no problems doing anything alone, and I never really have. I think it is an only child thing, even if I did go to boarding school from a young age. Congrats on finding how awesome it is!! x

One day, I shall go to Paris! Fingers crossed! What a beautiful city! http://theprinsloodiaries.blogspot.co.uk/

To be honest I still feel awkward about going to proper restaurants by myself! When I went to NYC alone I just ate fast food all the time haha. I do want to try #6 but maybe not in Paris, you are braver than I.

Oh my god. I had no idea about Paris until I read this and quickly went over to the BBC website and saw. How horrible and sad.

My first time of doing something alone was sitting down and having a coffee in costa when I was 19. It might not have been amazing to some, but it was to me.

I'd love to know more about your time in Paris. I moved in France on my own for 8 months and often went to Paris for weekends away. It's such a lovely city and makes me feel very much at home. I just feel.. good there. I can't explain it. But I love it. I'm hoping to visit again this summer for the first time in about 4 years.

It really is nice to watch peoples eyes light up when they see you've done something so big on your own.

Corinne x

This was such a great post to read, and it was really relatable. Paris is at least a beautiful city to be in , alone or not!

I love doing things by myself, but it's a bit of a learning curve to get there, for sure. I recently wrote a post on my own blog about "dating yourself" (http://www.throughthethicket.ca/2014/12/dating-yourself-because-doing-things-by.html)

xx Kathryn

It's the comfort of the dark and also the warm popcorn that convinced me it was safe!!! Baby steps.

You are probably so correct. I'm a twin and have shared literally, every significant and non significant event/experience/moment with someone else. Being alone is not something I feel wired to handle naturally!

Ohhh just do it. I bought a ticket so I was financially committed, makes it so much harder to pull out then.

I still always feel awkward, but I can do it nonetheless instead of just staying home. Ohhh don't worry, McDonalds got hit up quite a few times when I was in Paris (mostly because I could order or a screen in English and then just collect it. How simple!)

Horrendous news isn't it… sorry to bring your attention to such a bad story 🙁 Coffee is way braver than I was, I just sat in the dark for a few hours hahaha.

You can read about most of the silly adventures if you search "Paris" in the top search box. I was only there for 3 months but loved it. It was definitely a hard city, without speaking French, but I really had a great time and got a lot of confidence out of being there alone! I'm sure you'll love it even more if you head back in the Summer… (lucky you!!!)

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I loved reading this post! I used to always want to go to movies, but never alone until last year. The feeling is so freeing to get up and do whatever you want without being afraid of doing it alone! Thank you for sharing this amazing post! So glad we connected on instagram; you would love our Poncho Outfit look that we shared on the blog today!
xo, Jennifer
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It's a bit of a dream isn't it. But it can seriously kick you butt at times too, don't let the pretty scenery fool you 😉

Hi Fives all around for my fellow single cinema viewing ladies 😉

I love this article, and so glad that someone has written it on their blog. I'm also one of the people that enjoys doing things alone, especially going to the cinema and clothes shopping. Of course, it is not because one has no friends, but there are times when one finds doing certain activities alone is much more enjoyable than always having to go with someone just for the sake of having another person there…

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Oh I can't go clothes shopping with anyone… I get too frustrated! Took me a while to start doing things solo but once you get over the idea that it won't be fun by yourself, it's great!!!!!

Such a great post Megan !

When I was 13 I started going to the movies by myself, my parents worked in school holidays, so I used to go with them then walk to the cinema from their work, then after the movie I'd sit in the park to eat my lunch and read until they finished. It was really nice, I could do whatever I wanted and since I would otherwise be absorbed in a book at home anyway, I figured it was a good change. When I asked to go back packing alone through Europe at 17, they said it was okay, so in the month I turned 18, off I went. I looked young so when checking into the hostels people asked where my Mum was! 🙂

Independence is a great privilege and no one ever gives a hoot why you are alone at a restaurant- unless you are in Italy and your waiter wants to take you out after his shift on his Vespa. 🙂

xx Jenelle

Oh gosh how brave are you! I can't believe you backpacked alone at 18 years old. What an incredible adventure you must have had. See I'm a twin so I really, have not had to ever do a lot of things by myself. Especially when we were younger, I always had someone to go to the movies with or go shopping with.